Military Mondays: Status: Sometimes Single

I know I have been neglecting posts these past weeks but please bear with me as we are all slowly transitioning into the new school year (without a helper and 3 kids ranging in age from 9 to 1 and juggling working from home).  We have two new students this school year and that means we're easing into new routines (more on that in a later post).  Yes, the octopus mom is back juggling duties and adding a new duty as driver into the mix!

H has transferred to a new school and G is starting nursery and F, well, is going to accompany me when I ferry her sisters to and from school.  H and G are in two different schools but 5 minutes away from each other so that helps somewhat, logistically speaking.

And since this is a Military Monday post, I will be sharing my experience of being "sometimes single".  As a military officer, J is most often than not assigned to different locations throughout the Philippines (sometimes, out of the country also) and that makes me sometimes single. It has always been a challenge as a military wife to balance life as being in command one minute and then being in a "subordinate" position the next. There are "mom's rules" which swiftly change back up to "dad's rules".  I know it may sound schizophrenic to most who have both parents at home but I think that the girls are adapting to it marvelously.  I think that it also helps that J and I are in the same page with what rules are going to be enforced. It also helped that J and I talk these over when we have our downtime and sometimes there are no distinctions as to whose rules are those.  For example, the kids know that when J is around, they have to ask his permission when they want to play outside with their friends.  There are also some basic rules enforced by both of us like: Washing hands before eating and after playing outside, saying grace before meals, bedtimes, saying goodbye before leaving, etc.  There are constant reminders perpetuated by J right across from where I sit in the dining table which are to be made standard. He says that these help me remember as I am notorious for having mom brain. Yeah, guilty to a fault!

source:  www.nickmom.com

Being sometimes single is not all that bad though. I have learned that there are things that I thought I would never have done that I can and did splendidly. Like the times (yes multiple) when H had febrile convulsions and J was assigned in Mindanao and I had to rush her to the hospital. I know, I know, me being a doctor, I should have known what to do in the first place but when I became a mother, all those got thrown out of the window (thankfully, common sense did not!).  Now I understand, why parents panic when their kids get sick.  There was also the time when I had to fix a leak in the toilet (greatest achievement to date? hahaha). It may seem daunting at first but once you really put your head into the game, you'll realize that you are more than capable.  So, military wives, and sometimes single females, cheer up!  There is still hope for us, non-DIY types out there.

Been Busy Practicing

May is almost over and I still haven't written for this month. Bad, bad blogger! In my defense, I have been busy practicing how to drive and with an instructor like my husband, no is not an option! Hahaha! Yup, in addition to my other domestic duties, driver would be added this school year and since I will be taking all the kiddos with me, we have to practice for safety. Name all the driving conditions and I think my husband has tested me on it (well, we haven't tried rain yet but, I think we can manage when it does rain) and with his "militaristic" type of teaching, I am proud to say that I have passed with flying colors. I now have the keys to Dora...

Living up to Dora the Explorer's name, we have been as far north as Pangasinan and in and around the most likely places that I will be driving (Antipolo and Taguig) and as such, no blog posts for the month of May. Don't worry, I will be updating this blog with our adventures with Dora and a review of the Suzuki APV. Until then, see you on the road!

*image from www.suzuki.com.ph

Motivational Mondays: Attitude of Gratitude

It's been a long while since I have posted anything and what better way to start the ball rolling with a Motivational Monday post about Gratitude.

It is never easy to say thank you for the things that we have been given.  Oftentimes, we just take things, events and most especially, people, for granted. We are most drawn to look at the negative side of things. We think about the lack of money, problems we face each day, people who are rude or take us for granted and it never is good for our health and state of minds. Yes, I do get stressed out about the events that do not go my way but in retrospect and after calming down, I tend to realize that these are only tests which bring out the best in us. Take for example, me driving. Yes, I have had my driver's license since 1997 (yep, even before hubby had his) but I never really drove far. I mean, just around the village and the camp and that was it but this weekend, I actually got to drive far (around 30 kms!) with the narrow streets, bikers and pedestrians around and with the husband, watching my every move like a hawk! If you know my husband, he has very high standards about everything close to perfection even and it wasn't easy with him by my side tsk-tsking or seeing his mouth set in a thin line whenever a car or even a bike pass us by! Haha, yes I was that slow! But afterwards, I felt a sense of accomplishment and thankful for that experience.  It taught me that  I could do things if I set my heart into it. So, you can do so too and that is what we should be thinking all the time. We should be grateful for all the things that come our way regardless if it is negative or positive. Just remember that the Lord does not give us anything that we cannot carry.  And so, I leave you with this prayer which I found and will always be reciting from now on.  This was taken from http://christianteens.about.com/od/christianliving/qt/A-Prayer-Of-Gratitude.htm

Thank you, Lord, for the blessings you have bestowed on my life. You have provided me with more than I could ever have imagined. You have surrounded me with people who always look out for me. You have given me family and friends who bless me every day with kind words and actions. They lift me up in ways that keep my eyes focused on you and make my spirit soar.

Also, thank you, Lord, for keeping me safe. You protect me from those things that seem to haunt others. You help me make better choices, and you have provided me with advisors that help me with the difficult decisions. You speak to me in so many ways so that I always know you are here.

And Lord, I am so grateful for keeping those around me safe and loved. I hope that you provide me with the ability and sense to show them every day how much they matter. I hope that you give me the ability to give to them the same kindness they have provided to me. I am just so grateful for all of your blessings in my life, Lord. I pray that you remind me of just how lucky I am, and that you never allow me to forget to show my gratitude in prayer and returned kind acts. Thank you, Lord. In your name, Amen.

Happy Monday everyone! Have a great week ahead!

Family Fridays: Pandesal Date

To maintain a healthy relationship with our better halves, it is important to spend quality alone time with them now and then.  J and I have been doing this ever since we had H.  We would steal a few minutes, usually after dinner, to walk and talk.  We talk about our dreams, goals and plans for the future.  When we only had H and a maid, we could do this almost every night. But since the addition of two more kids and being helperless, this was not feasible.  Some ideas for our "dates" were imperative both for our sanity.

We tried having a date night but since we did not have a helper, this was a no go! We also tried having "a date" after we have put the kids to bed but as we are sometimes, okay most of the time, the first ones to fall asleep, this was also a fail. Boo! The opportunity to have "dates" presented itself with the opening of a bakery a few blocks from our house.  Every morning, when J is home, we buy our pandesal together.  We found that this is the perfect date! Yay!  The two little ones are still asleep and H just got out of the shower and will be able to come to her sisters' side if the need arises.

The early morning air, the quietness of the neighborhood and the holding hands (yes, we still hold hands *winks*) are very conducive to our talks.  It also serves as our exercise.  Our pandesal dates help us connect with one another.

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There isn't just enough time at night to talk about our day as after dinner clean up, bedtime prep and putting the kids to bed take precedence.  We hope to continue this as long as we have pandesal cravings.  Who can say no to freshly-baked pandesal after all, right?

The weekend is almost here and we would like to ask for your other date suggestions? What do you and your spouse do for quality alone time? I'd love to hear your suggestions.  Please do share.  In the meantime, happy weekend every one!

Travel Thursdays: El Puerto Marina Beach Resort and Vacation Club

All smiles at the entrance.

In 2011, we were offered membership to a relatively new concept (to us actually) of timesharing.  It was then that we were introduced to El Puerto Marina Beach Resort and Vacation Club. As we wanted to travel to different locales in the Philippines and hopefully, the world, we grabbed the chance to be part of this club.

Fast forward to 2013 when we were gifted with a mini-break vacation at the resort.  A mini-break is a 3-day, 2-night stay at their members only units.

 - The Accommodation
Members have the option of the studio unit, 1- or 2-bedroom unit.  We were asked to stay at the 1-bedroom unit since this was what we signed up for.  The 1-bedroom unit can accommodate four (4) adults and two (2) children.  Children aged 9 and above are considered adults, by the way.

Outside the unit at night.

At the terrace with sleepy F and bedhead G.

It came complete with a kitchen furnished with a refrigerator, induction stove, rice cooker, microwave, and a toaster.  It even had pots and pans.  Normally, guests are not allowed to bring in food but since we were members, and therefore, co-owners, we were exempted.

At the kitchen/dining room area. If you would look closely, a sponge was also included.

Bedroom with queen-sized bed

The unit was fully airconditioned.  The bedroom had a queen-sized bed, LCD TV, dresser and a wardrobe. An iron and ironing board were included also.  The living area had a daybed with pullout which the kids immediately claimed as their own.  It also had a LCD TV with cable. The dining room was set for four and had the type of furniture that I wanted (plus points!).  The bathroom had a shower with heater and the fixtures were top of the line.  I just wish that they had double sinks (peg for the future bathroom).  We were also given toiletries which were replenished everyday along with the bath towels.  The unit also had a patio where guests can lounge and breathe in the fresh air.  I just wished it had outdoor furniture, but inside the unit there were monoblock chairs you can take out.  J and little baby F, spent the afternoon here grilling.  J managed to somehow borrow a butaca chair which F promptly claimed.

Bathroom

Overall, the accommodations passed our little ones' standards.  H and G have an aversion to icky bathrooms and the resort passed with flying colors at that point.

-The Beach

Ah, the beach, the part that H loves being part mermaid. Hehe.  The sand at Pangasinan was pretty much the  same in consistency with that of Boracay's although not white.  This was the consistency that we wanted as this did not cling to your feet or into the "nether" regions of your anatomy. Hehe.  H, being part mermaid, plunged right into sea.  Thankfully, the sea was calm that early morning.  There were huts where the beach bums or "marinaters" (as J likes to call me and G) could stay and just enjoy the breeze.  The sea was calm enough for mid-February and this was the perfect opportunity for baby F to be introduced to the water.  I think that we have another mermaid at our hands. She was not scared unlike "marinaters" G and me. Teehee!

Soon-to-be mermaid, baby F

Baby F with the "marinaters" and off in the distance, our other mermaid.

Baby F being introduced to the water by J and G

After the beach, the children still did not have enough of the water and went to the pool.  The pool area had an adult's pool and a smaller sized jacuzzi.  The adult's pool was deep so I asked the kids to just stay at the jacuzzi.  G, being a marinater, as usual stayed by the side of the pool.

-The Service

The service and staff were very accommodating and polite (plus in my books. *winks*).  When we asked for room cleaning, not one but three staff members came and so we did not have to wait long for them to be done.  The towel and toiletries were replenished.  They even offered to change the beddings but as we were just going to stay for one more night, we declined.  The cleaning was done in about 10 minutes and it was not haphazarly done as evidenced by the clean bathroom.  Moms with small children know what a nightmare the bathroom is after their use.  When J asked for help in grilling, the same staff members came to help.  They would have grilled the fish if J had not wanted to do the grilling himself.

- The Food

Being club members, we were allowed to bring and cook our own food and therefore, not able to sample the food.

All in all, our stay at the resort was a pleasant affair.  In fact, the unit is our peg for when we build our forever home. We all can't wait to come back.  Now that the temperature is rising and summer almost upon us, why don't you try El Puerto Marina Beach Resort in Pangasinan?  Believe me, the long drive is totally worth it.

For booking and reservations:

Don Martin Domingo Street, Pangapisan North
Lingayen, Pangasinan, Philippines
Phone: +632 856-4600/ +632 775-6789
Mobile: +63939 540-0251/ +63917 867-3906
Fax: +6375 542-2285
email:  inquiries@elpuertomarina.com

Wellness Wednesdays: Colorectal Cancer

If you have been reading my posts about our father, you would know that my father has Stage 2 colorectal cancer and as this is Wellness Wednesday, I would like to blog about colorectal cancer.  This is a familial or hereditary disease meaning, if an immediate family member has/had it, you can have it too so it is better to be prepared by learning more about this disease.  March is also Colon and Rectal Cancer Awareness Month.

As is always the case healthwise, prevention is cure.  According to the Philippine Cancer Society Website,

"Colorectal Cancer is the 3rd most common cancer in the Philippines and the number steadily increases because less focus is given to this cancer as compared to that of Lung and Breast Cancer."

 

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According to Wikipedia, colorectal cancer is a cancer from uncontrolled growth of cells in the colon (large instestines) or rectum (end of the colon) or appendix. For the causes, signs and symptoms, prevention and detection of the disease, please refer to the Philippine Cancer Society Website's FAQs portion.

 

In our father's case, he had a two-month bout of diarrhea which was diagnosed first as amoebiasis.  His diarrhea took a long course as he was afraid to seek medical attention as he is scared of needles.  Yes, I know, I am a doctor and I should have urged him to seek a check-up.  But if you know,our father, he is very kind but the most stubborn person I know so asking him to have a check-up was definitely a battle in itself. We finally convinced him to have a check up and as I said earlier, he was diagnosed to have amoebiasis.  Being male and in his 70's, his doctor wanted him to have a colonoscopy as a screening procedure two weeks after his diarrhea was cured.  A few days after he was diagnosed with amoebiasis, he was not his usual jolly self and was not eating well if at all despite our mother's urging. My mother was concerned and he was admitted to the hospital for rehydration.  The doctor then wanted him to undergo colonoscopy a week after.  In the colonoscopy, a mass near the anal verge was found and thought to be malignant, he was advised resection of the mass.  My siblings and I then decided to seek a second opinion.  We looked for a colorectal surgeon and luckily, found Dr. Manuel Franciso Roxas. Dr. Roxas admitted our father to undergo further workup. Our father then underwent blood tests and a CT so that his colonoscopy will not be repeated. He then underwent a colonoscopy and after chemoradiotherapy, if the tumor size is decreased will undergo a second surgery for resection and then chemotherapy again.  Hopefully, he will not undergo chemotherapy IV but only the oral kind.

 

Our father's side of the family has a strong family history of colorectal cancer.  Our grandfather and uncle both died from this disease and we think that this is the cause of our father's cancer as family history is also a risk factor.  He is not obese or a smoker but he does love meat and that could be a contributing factor also.

 

As an update, he is currently undergoing chemo and radiation therapy. This will last for 28 days. We hope that you will pray for his immediate recovery.

Sources:
Philippine Cancer Society Website
Wikipedia

Tabletalk Tuesdays: North Park Noodle House

Back in 2008 when we were still living at Bonifacio Heights, H and I would pass by North Park Noodle House two times a week on our way to her Kumon classes and we wanted to eat there. We never had the chance to do so then because we thought it was an expensive restaurant which served only noodles and knowing J, he would never hear of it.  Fast forward to 2013 when we went to SM Hypermarket in Antipolo and we were greeted with the North Park Noodle House on the second floor. Luckily, J ate there once with his mistahs and I joked that he we should eat there as I always wanted to eat there. Lo and behold, he agreed. I was just sad that H was not able to join us. But don't worry H, we will do so after your dismissal from your new school. Shhh! Hehehe.

The decor was somewhat confusing as I did not know whether it was a Japanese or Chinese restaurant. There was nothing new about the setup. I just got a hint when we were presented with the menu which was actually the placemat also. They had no high chair so I had to hold F the whole time while we were eating, not to mention that I was terribly hungry (PG levels ang peg). This is also the reason that we did not have  pictures of the food that we ordered and I'll just be borrowing from their website. You just try balancing an infant trying to grab the placemat and utensils while trying to take pictures. No go! My being a part-time octupus was no match for a wriggling infant!

What we ordered. Being a noodle house, J ordered the Nanking Beef Noodle Soup in light size.  Customers have the option to try out different noodles with their order (Hongkong, empress, wheat, etc). I'm sorry I was not able to get all the names of the noodle choices. J asked me to try this once it arrived and I was blown away by the soup alone. The soup alone really tasted like beef. I also thought that since it was beef and had tendons, it was going to be very difficult to eat with just one hand (moms, you know what I mean) but no, the beef tore apart with the slightest pull of the spoon. The three hours of stewing was worth it. It was that good that we ordered another one. It would have been more practical if we ordered the regular size and divided it between J and myself but since we were new to the resto, we did not think about it. Next time, though.

We also ordered the Yang Chow fried rice. Being Chinese food lovers, we never fail to order this when we dine at a Chinese resto. We were told that this was good for three persons and they were right! It was the size of a small bowl!  It had a distinctive spicy flavor which was just right for my taste. I never did like spicy food. *winks*

Last on our order list was the steamed rice with double pork ribs.  This was also very tender as I was just eating with one hand and the steamed rice was exactly the right consistency. My mother, who is very picky with her rice, would approve.

All in all, order went around to Php 585 which was worth every centavo of it. We would surely come back here as it was a very pleasant dining experience. I recommend for you to try this resto next time you pass by it. Don't wait for five years like I did. Hehe.

Blog Organization

The OC in me has struck again. Have you seen the new page already? Well, it explains why I had a blog organization. As an OC-type of person, I had to do some decluttering and what better way than with my blog. I was about to do some decluttering with my closet but seeing the unfolded shirts scared me not to mention that it was too hot nowadays. Arte levels lang naman ako, in short, ayaw ko pawisan. Hehehe. Hopefully, I get to post daily and keep you up to date on the happenings in and around our raw house. Stay tuned!

Relieved, Somewhat

We've received news about Tatay's illness and he was diagnosed with the Big "C" and it has been staged already. I know it sounds daunting but my siblings and I are relieved somewhat because we know what we are fighting and how we can fight this. Today, Tatay is going to undergo a colostomy so that he will be relieved of the fecal impaction and after one week will be having chemo and radiation therapy to lessen the bulk of the mass. We are relieved that his doctors are not radical in the sense that they have opted to do conservative management first before surgery. We are aware that chemo and radiation therapy is still a long process (5 to 6 weeks in Tatay's case) and it will entail a lot of time, money and energy but knowing about his diagnosis makes us all optimistic that we will get through this.

I am just happy that my siblings and I are close and support each other no matter what. It may sound weird but we are not jealous of each other. In fact, we are happy if someone achieves something and will do anything to support each other. Yes, we were reared to be close to each other and never to be jealous of one another. I hope to instill that in my girls and teach them that siblings are not enemies but your allies. *winks*

For those who have been praying, thank you and we hope that you will continue to do so for Tatay's successful surgery today and his eventual recovery. As I always say, there is strength in numbers after all.

Mr. Practical Turns Mushy

I know it's been a week since Valentine's Day but I still can't get over J giving me flowers and not just flowers but a BIG boquet of flowers.

Yeah I know, they're just flowers but if you know my husband, he's not the flowers and chocolates sort of guy so it takes quite a lot of getting used to. He is quite generous with his gifts, by the way, but you can't call them romantic. Some of his "practical gifts" were:

1. The house that we live in. I know, it was not bought for me (we haven't even met in 1997) but since this is our home, I consider it is his gift to me. Ever the practical one, we don't worry about rent and mortgage. It's fully paid and truly our own!

2.  The necklace with his class seal as pendant. This has significance to us military wives as this symbolizes us becoming part of his class.  The mini-ring has more significance, I know, but since this was not passed on by my mother-in-law to me, it does not count and since he does not wear his bull ring, why should I? :)

3. The foot spa machine which he uses. Hehe. I don't particularly like giving myself foot spas. I'd rather someone give me a foot spa for total relaxation. He has more use of this as he gives himself a foot spa after he runs a marathon. 42km could do that to you!

4. The electric oven. Again, he uses it more. I cook the food but I think he benefits more from this as he enjoys my cooking with it. Hehe!

Source I did not want to post a picture of our actual oven. It might scare you off. Ha! Just think that we've put it to good use.

5. The kitchen and bathroom renovation.


There are more gifts he has given me but it was never the romantic types. You know, the just gave them because I like to give them but don't have any real purpose type of gifts. He always gives me gifts that have a specific purpose in mind. I can just count the times he has has given me flowers: 1) A boquet of white roses in 2002 because he lost a bet, 2) in 2008 for my 32nd birthday he gave me a boquet of red roses and 3) last year for Valentine's day. See, you can just count them on one hand! Haha! Maybe it's also my fault because I never did like flowers because they just wilt and then die so maybe he took that to heart and never did give me flowers. Ha! *smacks self on forehead and suddenly feeling like an idiot*

Nevertheless, the unexpectedness of the gesture made it more special.  The flowers may have died already but the gesture did not get lost on me so dear Mr. Practical, J, thank you for making me kilig in this old age. May you continue this Valentine's tradition. *winks!

Positive Thoughts

My father is going to undergo a colonoscopy today because the doctor felt a lump during his physical examination. We are all hoping that this is just a reaction to his chronic diarrhea and so, I am just thinking positive thoughts right now with the help of this:

 

I know that this is not my story to share but I'm thinking that by sharing more positive thoughts will be made and I know that there is strength in numbers.

Keeping The Love Alive, Military Style

We are a military family and sometimes the distance makes it more difficult than most. I know that there are OFW families out there who have the same fate as us but I think that the added danger makes it more difficult for us military families and so, how do you keep the love alive?

Keeping the love alive, military style, let me count the ways:

1. Know what you're getting into.



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My family was never into anything military and therefore, I did not have any idea of what I was getting into. I took this line to heart which was said by our military ninong: "Are you ready?" I was fascinated by the pomp and pageantry and at the same time was lost in a sea of cadet lingo, military acronyms, and traditions. This could make a newbie military wife bewildered and at a loss especially when you do not have "military wife friends" and the husband is deployed immediately after your wedding. This can make you feel isolated and can cause a rift in the relationship. What to do? I read a lot about the military, the Philippine Military specifically, just to get a bird's eye view of what it was really about. It also helped that my husband gave me his booklet of cadet lingo and the traditions and practices that I was going to be a part of since the day I said, "I do." 


2. Accept the job.

After knowing about the military, I accepted the fact that there will be times that I would be alone and be the mother, father, handyman, etc and be ready to surrender those positions when the husband comes back home. Yes, through our years of married life, I have learned to fix the flush in the toilet, change lightbulbs, change fuses, fix plumbing (leaky faucets and such), do a little hammering which I have never imagined my girly-girly self would do.

I also accepted the fact that me and my girls would never be number. Yes, this is a little martyr, but they do not call their guns "wife" for nothing. I have made peace with this because I know that after the service, family is next.

* Image from the Philippine Army website

3. Make reunions happy ones.

Whenever my husband would come home (whether from deployment or from the office), the girls and I would make sure that the house is presentable (a haven, if you must), a hot meal is ready to be served, and show that we miss and appreciate the man of the house. I understand that it is hard to keep something from the ones we are closest to. There are aspects of his job that he can never tell me for security purposes and therefore, making the home a haven for him is a must. Have you ever tried keeping a secret which you wanted to tell you best friend, significant other, mother, sister, the ones closest to you, multiply that by 10 and you get the picture of the stress he is in. Home = haven is therefore a priority.

 

 

4. Keep lines of communication open.

 With the advent of cellular phones, the internet, messenger and Skype, it is never a problem to communicate with our man.  This is the one thing that keeps them from "losing their minds" and telling them that they need not worry for the ones they leave behind and concentrate on the task at hand therefore, not endangering their safety and others as well.  Messenger saved our sanities when he was deployed abroad for six whole months leaving me with the eldest and a three-month old baby to care for. I remember when he was deployed somewhere south and to get a text message or call through, he would have to climb a tree in order to get a signal along with his troops. How hilarious could that picture be right? Imagine a group of grown men, soldiers to boot, all up in the tree with their hands up in the air just to get a signal. Hehe.

*Image from here
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5. Make yourself busy.

Yes the days of separation are long (three months at the minimum) but you shouldn't count the days when he will be back. Make yourself busy and soon enough the days will pass by and it will be time for the two-week R and R. In making yourself busy, you get to know and enrich yourself.

 

*Image from here

These are just some of the things that I have learned after being married to a military man and hopefully, you can learn from them also. I know that you have other lessons so please do share.  After all, sharing is caring!

Happy Heart's Day everyone!

 

 



Beauty Defined

Happy weekend everyone! A little reminder from a gracious woman...

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.
Audrey Hepburn

Call Me Laundry

The sight of drying laundry always puts me in a good mood probably because it's one of the household chores that I detest, dislike to put it mildly.  When it's laundry day (Mondays and Fridays usually), I always try to wake up early so that I'll be done by the time the little ones are awake.  This was a tip an elderly neighbor gave me: Do laundry while kids are asleep hence, the early morning hum of the washing machine.  This gives me a sense of accomplishment and sets the tone for the day.  I know I'll be ready for another day filled with spills, mess, screams and everything in between.  Well, I'm off to face the day and I leave you with Carly Mae Jepsen with her song, "Call Me Maybe". Just like me, may you have LSS (last song syndrome) today!

Have a good day peeps!

P.S. I've included the lyrics to the song. Feel free to substitute the word" maybe" with "laundry."  Sing with me now...

I threw a wish in the well,Don't ask me, I'll never tellI looked to you as it fell,And now you're in my way
I'd trade my soul for a wish,Pennies and dimes for a kissI wasn't looking for this,But now you're in my way
Your stare was holdin',Ripped jeans, skin was showin'Hot night, wind was blowin'Where you think you're going, baby?
Hey, I just met you,And this is crazy,But here's my number,So call me,laundry?
It's hard to look right,At you baby,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
Hey, I just met you,And this is crazy,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
And all the other boys,Try to chase me,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
You took your time with the call,I took no time with the fallYou gave me nothing at all,But still, you're in my way
I beg, and borrow and stealHave foresight and it's realI didn't know I would feel it,But it's in my way
Your stare was holdin',Ripped jeans, skin was showin'Hot night, wind was blowin'Where you think you're going, baby?
Hey, I just met you,And this is crazy,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
It's hard to look right,At you baby,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
Hey, I just met you,And this is crazy,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
And all the other boys,Try to chase me,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
Before you came into my lifeI missed you so badI missed you so badI missed you so, so bad
Before you came into my lifeI missed you so badAnd you should know thatI missed you so, so bad
It's hard to look right,At you baby,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
Hey, I just met you,And this is crazy,But here's my number,So call me, laundry?
And all the other boys,Try to chase me,But here's my number,So call me,laundry?
Before you came into my lifeI missed you so badI missed you so badI missed you so, so bad
Before you came into my lifeI missed you so badAnd you should know that
So call me, laundry?

The Homies

Now that you know a little something about our home, let me introduce you to the homies:

J, husband, father, military man, jack of all trades.

C, wife, mother, erstwhile doctor, stay-at-home mom, multi-tasker.






The Tres Marias:

H, daughter, eldest sister, grade schooler, "mermaid".
G, daughter, middle sister, homeschooler, "joker".
F, daughter, youngest sister, infant, "the baby".

No Place Like Home

In 2000, my husband's siblings moved into this house. J, being assigned in Mindanao, was not able to go home every three months; so, he was not able to decorate the house as he wanted. Then in 2003, we were married and we made this house our home.  Being newlyweds, we were not able to do much for the house. I was lucky though because all I had to do was live in it because it was already fully furnished.  All the house needed was a woman's touch so to speak.

Source

Three years later, he took an advance training course and had to stay in Tarlac for three months.  Since I was a stay-at-home mom to a toddler, we decided to join him there.  During this time, I was able to undergo training as a medical transcriptionist.  After our trainings ended, we were given quarters at GHQ (Camp Aguinaldo).  We stayed there for 11 months and had to leave because we were "evicted".  This was because the place was to be converted to a commissary.  We then transferred to our condo unit and made it our home for the next two years.  And then in 2009, we decided to come back to Angono.  As you can see, we have been "NPAs" (no permanent addressees) for three years and we have concluded that there is no place like home.

Our Raw House

Hi there! This is not a DIY blog but who knows, it may turn out to be one.

This is a blog about our row house that we're trying to make into a home both literally and figuratively. So, I'll start to describe what a row house is and how row became raw in our case. A row house is defined as one of a series of houses, often of similar or identical design, situated side by side and joined by common walls. This is like an apartment. I think you get the picture. Anyway, our row house became raw because when it is turned over, it really is raw. I mean, the exterior is already done but it is literally up to you how you divide the space. This house was bought my husband right after he graduated from college in 1997 and as a new college grad, all he can afford at that time was a small house (aka low-cost housing project). Hehe. But still, it is ours and gradually, we are going to turn this house into a home. I hope you often visit us to view our progress.